He's Just Not into You!

Every woman has had her eye on or dated the type of guy I'm talking about here. We are never really sure where we stand with him or what his interest level really is. Making excuses by calling him Mr. Flake, Mr. Player, Mr. Busy or Mr. Afraid of Commitment, really doesn't answer any questions as just leaves us confused, frustrated and wondering what's really going on in his mind.

So, my ever insightful brothas, what are the official cues that you give a chick to let her know that you are just not that into her? Sista's if you have the cues down pat, then do tell! Here is a few obvious one's that I've noticed.

The True Playa
This guy starts off real aggressive, hot and heavy. He can't see you often enough, calls all the time and declares his love for you early on. This guy is a classic neophiliac, he loves the thrill of the chase, and is enamored with the novelty of you. Once that has worn off and he has gotten what he wants, he sets his sights on the next pretty girl.

Get a clue: " He's not that into you!"

Mr. Taken
Whether this guy is involved in another relationship with a girlfriend or wife, he should be off limits. Yet so many women are lured by the seduction of his words and think he'll eventually dump the other woman and choose them. They are told the other woman is a witch, mean, does not understand them, is psycho and won't leave him alone. Or, he says to you that their relationship has a lot of problems, they fight constantly, he is no longer sleeping with the girlfriend or wife, he's staying only for financial reasons or the children. The best lie of all: he's planning on divorcing or leaving his wife or girlfriend very soon, just be patient. Now, months or years are passing by and his promises are not worth the paper they were written on.

Get a clue: " He's not that into you!"

(via Dimewars)